The New Thrift
Penny pincher. Stingy. Tightwad. Avaro, codo, tacaño. And so on, through the years. We haven’t really showered conservative spenders with flattering adjectives.
Years ago, my landlord stopped by to pick up the monthly rent. We found ourselves discussing the topic of shopping. She swore she regularly bought $200 worth of groceries with just $50 and a box of coupons. I didn’t believe her until she took me to her car, popped the trunk open and reached into a mass of paper bags to pull out her receipt as evidence.
The first words to enter my mind were “miser” and “cheapskate.” It seemed silly to waste time cutting out coupons. Why spend life stooped over the newspaper with a pair of scissors in hand?
I am not alone in this hasty perception of those people who guard their money so closely. Many have viewed thrift as a sad, cheap trait with a terrible reputation.
But to others, thrift is a word of pride. Thrift has something to say in its very roots. The word comes from the word “thrive” and this makes sense. Frugality is about making informed, efficient decisions in everyday life and the wise, judicious use of time and resources – so that individuals and their communities might live a better life. In short, thrive.
For Iris Calderón, the owner of Calderón Community Services, thrift is a lifelong passion instilled in her youth when she lived in the Bronx. Iris recalls the lessons she learned from her single mother. “She made sure that we understood the meaning of a dollar and how important it was to save … that name brand shoes or clothing weren’t important.”
When Iris found herself a young mother-to-be, she decided to take firm control of her life. She did not want to become yet another statistic and abandon her education and go on welfare. “I didn’t have a difficult time rethinking my life,” says Iris. When she married her husband, Martín Ávila, a frugal lifestyle continued to be a natural fit. “We have never really been big spenders. Our inspiration comes from our personal childhood experiences and our children. We’ve always tried to give them a better life than we had.”
Today, their money-conscious lifestyle has paid off. Both now in their mid 30s, Martin and Iris bought their first home in 1997. In 2006, they upgraded to a better home. They’ve started two successful businesses and now own 100 acres of land on a lush mountainside south of Cuernavaca, Mexico. All thanks to the wisdom of frugal spending habits.
In America, Benjamin Franklin is largely responsible for making wise spending and living a virtue. His publications, Poor Richard’s Almanac and The Way to Wealth, were cornerstones for much of our collective frugal mindset and perhaps for the long-revered idea that in this country, anyone can make it big with ethics and elbow grease.
But even in Franklin’s day, thrift was nothing new. We learned to appreciate the idea long before money was invented; perhaps as the ancient farmer quickly realized it was important to not gobble up everything grown. To avoid future starvation, seeds had to be saved for the next planting season. We learned the necessity of providing for tomorrow, not just today. As civilizations grew, this wisdom benefited entire populations.
So thrift isn’t the stingy creature we think it is; it has grown to have a bigger heart. It isn’t about simply hoarding pennies and resources for self-interest. Often these conserved resources can be used to help better a society.
















